Boss-lady said to me, today, that we spend so much time, and do so much research when choosing a house or a car or which university to attend - how come people aren't that fussy and are prepared to settle when it comes to their partners? Now you might think that boss-lady is a bit airy-fairy from my last post about her, but shes one of the smartest, most practical people I know. At 34 shes an accomplished actuary, businesswoman and one of my closest friends.
With those inspiring thoughts I decided to be a bit pro-active about my approach. For the past month, all Ive done is accept invitations - perhaps I should do the inviting?
There's this guy I really like- I mean really really like. I'd be happy to add him on as a spouse on my Discovery medical aid, and run the risk of losing my newly-achieved Diamond status, which took me three years to get to! (thats how much I like him)
We've been friends for about 7 years now and met when we were both at university, ..we also went out on a few dates years ago.
After doing some light stalking of his Facebook profile-and discovering that he's single-I've decided to "casually" pop by for a visit. Both of us own apartments in the same complex, I don't live there but Ive recently been doing some renovations there.
He's got everything I'm looking for, cant think of anything more that I'd want..- has a JAY OH BEE, loves travelling, and our dogs have the same name (coincidentally). What more could I ask for?...he's also wickedly funny, attractive, modest, kind, smart and we are good friends. (but that's secondary to the dogs bit)
Boss lady and and right-hand-side colleague say I should grow some balls and just ambush him..so one of the nights this week I'm gonna jump out of the bushes when he's driving back from work lol :)
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